Pablo Skolnick and Corie Skolnick

Desto3: Postcards from The Middle East: Amman, Jordan

A view of Amman from The Citadel

The Desto3 team spent the better part of November and December traveling throughout the Middle East. Join us virtually until you can go yourself. First stop? Amman, Jordan.


This episode of “Where in the world is Pablo?” finds our intrepid hero in any one of seven middle eastern countries, beginning in Jordan, what some Jordanians refer to as the 52nd U.S. state. (Israel being the 51st.) (Sorry, Puerto Rico and for that matter D.C. – nobody over here gives a fig about your plight regarding statehood rights, and figs are plentiful here.)

You never know what the man on the street in any foreign nation really thinks about their country’s relationship to America and Americans, and I always assume that folks who work in the tourism industry will have a somewhat skewed opinion (for better or worse) given that much of their livelihood is dependent on US tourist dollars and near constant social intercourse with actual Americans or other westerners in the course of their workweek. But even acknowledging this, my take on the affection that Jordanians manifest for the U.S. is that it is pretty damn genuine and remarkably positive. And, the Jordanians on the whole seem absolutely incapable of deception and utterly guileless.

Another note on the nature of the locals: with no exception, every single Jordanian we came in contact with exhibited a sweetness and a sincerity that could take your breath away. I was put in mind of Margaret Atwood’s Crakers (from Oryx and Crake) minus the nudity and other obvious differences. (BTW, I highly recommend the Atwood trilogy, just fyi, for long journeys. And, random travel pro tip: always take an epic novel with you on any long trip. For those boring mid-transit hours.)


The Citadel in Amman, Jordan

On the first day, we spent our time in and around Amman viewing nearby sites that really should be UNESCO World Heritage sites but somehow missed the list. First up, the Citadel, which, as Citadels go, is right up there. I’m put in mind of my dear friends Holly and Jan who always comment, “I wonder how many slaves perished to build THAT?” In this case, the answer is, plenty. There’s a museum inside the Citadel that chronicles the history. (You can visit virtually via Wikipedia for the same info if you are curious.) The day we visited, the Citadel’s amphitheater was in preparation for a big event being thrown by the king. I don’t know what the occasion was but it is notable that this “venue” is still being used as a party site. Alas, the Desto3 folks were not invited to attend and while we’ve been known to crash a party or two in foreign locales, we were skittish about doing it in Jordan. Probably a good call.



Next, we moved on to Jerash, an ancient/modern city about an hour’s drive from Amman. The ruins of the ancient city are in a constant state of excavation and renovation. Evidence of some kind of ancient Neolithic civilization dates human life there to 7500 B.C. What has been unearthed already displays a history of the occupation of the old city. It’s the usual cycle of domination by all the same suspects in World History 101, i.e., the Greeks, the Romans, the Byzantines, a brief failed attempt by the Christian Crusaders, and finally the Islamic dynasties that maintain ownership and occupation to this very day.



There’s a pretty comprehensive Rue du Crapola just inside the gates, but the shop owners are actually very chill and the few I spoke with were friendly, curious, and unaggressive. Again, more of the local charm prevailed.



Our day guide inside the city walls of ancient Jerash was not exactly bitter about the world’s failure to adequately acknowledge Jerash with the appropriate World Heritage designation. It was more like he blamed the oversight on a failure of Jordan’s own public relations capabilities. He knew (and listed for us) all the other sites and opined vociferously that Jerash deserved to be recognized every bit (and maybe more) than they did. It IS quite spectacular. And it is HUGE. The magnificence of the reclaimed structures including the columns in every period rivals Pompeii, the Roman Coliseum, and the Greek Parthenon. You get a sense of what’s to come as you enter through Hadrian’s Gate (more on this in a sec). From that entry point onward it just gets better and better. It remains a mystery as to why the folks at UNESCO have overlooked it. I suspect politics, but then, I’m suspicious like that.


The Wadi Rum Desert

On the second day in Jordan, I spent four hours in the back of a compact Ford speeding through the desert from Amman to Wadi Rum, the “Holy Valley” or the “Valley of the Moon.” It is the only way to get there unless you’re wealthy enough to take a helicopter in. The landscape through the desert is so barren it conjures up movie moonscapes. Indeed, more than a couple Hollywood movies, including the blockbuster The Martian (with my fave, Matt Damon) was shot on location here in Jordan’s desert. At certain times, I could have been en route from Los Angeles to Vegas. Flat and bleak and in the summer, muy caliente. Then you enter the red valley and you are reminded much of Sedona, Arizona, if you’ve ever been. The sand is like red flour and the youth and the tourists like to run barefoot down the dunes in it. (Me, maybe 20 years ago, but my hip surgeon would not approve of any such foolishness now. My partner “ran” down, but not with what anyone here or anywhere would call “alacrity.”)


Wadi Rum

A Bedouin at Wadi Rum

There are many overnight camps in Wadi Rum varying from luxurious to basic, and the prices range accordingly. Our camp was a mix of Bedouin style tents and plastic, airtight domes that allowed us to star gaze all night long from bed. We justified the extra expense by noting that it’s highly unlikely we’ll ever be back again, and, I must say, it was worth every extra penny. So, don’t be cheap. There’s just nothing like lying under a night sky in Wadi Rum to fuel the contemplations of your relative insignificance in the universal scheme of things. Unless, of course, you’re doing the same thing in the red sand desert of Namibia.


The night sky at Wadi Rum

Meanwhile, the local Bedouin tribe are still basically nomadic and they OWN the Wadi Rum. From a distance, you see their many 4X4s careening through the desert like motorized beetles all carrying Western tourists to the various points of interest and the many stellar viewing sites. These “desert tours” are a principle source of income now. I cannot say enough about the graciousness of the Bedouin. Few are really proficient in English and most still live as the tribe has for hundreds of years. We must seem very odd to them and yet they are so generous and kind it breaks your heart a little. I hope the Wadi Rum stays this way, but I have fears that with more and more tourism, the jade will set in and even the sweetest guys will get polished and savvy. This will be too bad. It may be inevitable, however, as Jordan is not oil rich like the rest of the gulf and they will, out of necessity, rely on tourism for income. Otherwise, they export a lot of agricultural products, unlike most of the rest of this region and, so far, Jordan is the ONLY country in the Middle East to invest significantly in alternative power. A decent representation of wind farms already exists and one thing they have plenty of is wind.


A luxury Dome Tent at Wadi Rum

On the way back to Amman from the Wadi Rum, we visited Petra. You really do need much more than a day to take all of Petra in. Our guide recommended five days minimum. He was magnificent, but there’s only so much you can cover if you are rushing along. If you plan to go, I’d give it a minimum of three days and you should stay in the new city of Petra to do it.

The long walk into the hidden city through a rock walled canyon takes over an hour itself and if you’re not up for the hike you can hire a carriage. Walking IN is not hard as it’s slightly downhill. Walking OUT is a little trickier. We opted for the donkey ride up the fire/emergency road. (A 20-minute ride instead of an hour and a half walk back – did I mention, uphill?) The fire road route is REALLY steep. I’d guess a 14% incline or more, so I felt really bad for my poor donkey but I did give him a wee tip. (Recommended by our guide and then, as if we’d forget, also by the donkey’s manager – seriously, who doesn’t tip their donkey?) We’re good with the hardworking donkeys of Petra.


The canyons of Petra


Hustling back to make the iconic sunset photo over the Dead Sea and to stay over again in Amman to catch our flight to Qatar, we raced along the coast that gives you a view of Jericho in Israel. It is THAT close. I have to say, it does give one pause, given both ancient and recent history, to stand on the high bank of the Dead Sea in Jordan and look across to the lights of Jericho in Israel. Perhaps one of the most moving world vistas. Given all that history. You know.


Sunset over the Dead Sea

Back to Hadrian’s gate in Jerash: some additional contemplation.


Hadrian’s Gate at Jerash

Hadrian. Google the guy for background and then ponder this: word was sent to Jerash two years prior to his actual arrival alerting the locals that he was coming to visit. So, in the span of those two years, the inhabitants of the city built a gate through which he would ceremoniously enter. A gate that would befittingly honor him as he was much beloved throughout the region. When I say “gate” you should envision the Arc du Triomphe in Paris, or perhaps the Arch in Washington Square Park, New York City. A big, substantial mother. You don’t throw one of those suckers up overnight.

Now, imagine the devotion a population must feel to any given leader or political figure to erect such a monument for a guy who basically stopped in ONE time. He stayed around four months and then moseyed on his way, never to return and enter through his gate again. Never. Ever. Just that once.

This is where my thoughts go these days. What was it about Hadrian that made people want to create such magnificence just to say, “Hey, dude, welcome to Jerash! We love you.”

Or, did he just have a great PR advance team? I wonder.


First published by the travel guide Desto3 and republished with permission.


Pablo Skolnick and Corie Skolnick

Pablo Skolnick has visited and photographed over 130 independent countries. His wife/collaborator, Corie, has sent postcards from half of them. Together they lead the teams at the travel website, Find Pablo's work at,, and Instagram @pabloskolnick. Corie's novels, ORFAN and AMERICA'S MOST ELIGIBLE are available from any bookseller. She has contributions to the adoption anthologies ADOPTION THERAPY and ADOPTION REUNION IN THE SOCIAL MEDIA AGE, in Nailed Magazine, and on the podcast THRILLS AND MYSTERY. She is a San Diego State University Hugh C. Hyde Living Writers choice and will Skype for free at any book club that adopts one of her novels. (This offer expires as soon as it becomes a pain in the ass.) THE BAFFLED KING will be published by India Street Press in 2021.

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